Every year we have had a birthday party for Kait. This year I just never got around to planning one. I was pregnant and a bit uneasy about the pregnancy. I sat down with Kait and said, "would it be ok if we don't do a party this year? Maybe you and I can just go do something fun instead." I can tell she is getting older because she was ok with that. She still wanted one but understood that I was tired and busy. Of course, she said, " that's ok Mom. Maybe you and I should just go on a cruise or to Hawaii or something instead."
(We ended up delivering a still born girl on our birthday. She got to spend the entire day at Grandma's and have a small party with a few cousins and I got to lay in bed allllll day and read. So it turned out ok for both of us).
Kait I love you. You are growing up and maturing. You don't complain about cleaning nearly as much. You are becoming a great helper with Tanner. I love that I have always been able to explain a situation to you and you except it for what it is. I love you!